Hey! How are ya? Like I said, I got sort of intrigued by the Just World fallacy. I figured I would read a bit more. Knowledge is power.
It turns out, according to Wiki, this fallacy has been around pretty much forever with philosophers in 180 CE arguing against it. In the 1960s Melvin Lerner started to study it in social psychology. He was curious how brutal regimes maintain popular support. The Just World fallacy helps these regimes because people feel when other people suffered they deserve to suffer. After all, in a Just World why would good people be punished? Thus, if you can make a group suffer, others will look down on them because they deserve what they got. Yikes.
Lerner did propose belief in a Just World is important for our well-being. It allows us to have some faith in the future. However, what happens when you are the one who is experiencing the suffering? Not only do other people tend to blame you…a la the Just World fallacy…but you blame yourself, too!!
This is why the Psychology Today author suggested ditching the Just World concept. It is also why DBT teaches two of the lessons it does.
The first one is the nonjudgmental stance. Pointing the finger and blaming is ineffective. It does not get the job done. What it does do is produce shame and guilt.
The second lesson is “everything has a cause but it is not necessarily you!” When I teach that concept I get out the list of risk factors for AMD. Above 55 years of age. Female. White. High blood pressure. Family history of AMD. Sun exposure. A diet lacking in some nutrients. I have the whole lot of those. Yes, I missed blue eyes, smoking lack of activity and obesity, but hey, that is 7 out of 11!
It is not a question of why me, but one of why NOT me?
And did you notice most of the ones I hit are things I could do nothing about? I am a 65-year-old, white female who had a father with AMD. So, shoot me. How is this my fault? It’s not. When all is said and done, life is not fair. There is much that is not contingent upon our behaviors. You did not cause your AMD You are not bad.
So that is the Just World fallacy. Recognizing the world is not fair and just and, indeed, bad things happen to good people may not do much to end your coping fatigue but then again, it could do quite a bit. Are you the type who is afraid you are somehow responsible for your vision loss? Do you spend hours and days trying to decide what you did to deserve this? Knowing the Just World assumption is a fallacy can get you away from beating yourself up. It can remove the burden of guilt. You did not do this. Life is not fair. You are off the hook for this one! Feel better now?
Written November 30th, 2018